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Highlighting the struggles of Bristol’s carers
The people who dedicate their lives to caring for a loved one are often thrust into the role almost overnight and face struggles that are complex, pressing and yet regularly undetected.
Anndeloris Chacon, manager at Bristol Black Carers, has spoken out to highlight some of the issues faced by carers of all ages across the city in a bid to change attitudes and encourage people to ask for help.
“One of the biggest problems is that carers are often not aware that they are carers,” says Chacon, explaining that many who take on the role of caring for a family member merely see it as their duty and do not recognise it as a formal position.
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Speaking during national Carers Week which runs from June 12-18, Chacon welcomed the chance to celebrate the role of carers in the UK, but argued it is still not reaching out enough to the people falling through the net and struggling to cope on their own.
Young carers enjoying some time away on the water
“It’s important for carers to get support, but also to realise that their relationship with the person they are caring for is affected too,” she said.
“I would say this is the biggest issue facing caring and the thing I really want to change.
“The role of caring is a role that is inflicted on people who do not have any training, people are often thrust into the role very quickly. Having been a nurse for 26 years, I see this time and time again.
“There are problems that arise from this situation. There is a guilt trip that comes from both parties and that guilt can become so embedded that they do not know how to ask for help.
“There is nothing wrong with asking for help and nothing wrong with taking time out for yourself.”
Bristol Black Carers provides support, help and advice for carers and their loved ones in the city.
While this can be practical day to day stuff, Chacon says it is sometimes just about offering people the chance to sit and have a cup of tea and a chat.
“It’s not always about finding a solution, but helping people to realise they are not always on their own,” she added.
Anndeloris Chacon with others from Bristol Black Carers
Read more: Bristol’s hidden network of young carers
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